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From
a distance, Helen seems like any other 9 year old; she flashes a smile,
sits quietly in class, plays easily with toys and runs about the playground
full of energy. But wait, come closer, take time and look a little more
carefully; you will see that Helen is not like most children.
Since Helen's birth in 1992, something about her
was different. According to her mother, Prisca Marvin, "Helen did
not interact with playmates or develop speech patterns like other babies.
In the first year of her life, we became so concerned that she was falling
behind in the development of basic social skills that we turned to the
medical community for an answer."
Over the next few months, doctors conducted numerous
exams and tests. They assured Helen's parents that their daughter was
fine and indicated that Helen's intelligence was actually above average.
The doctors indicated, "Helen was just a little slower than other
children in the development of speech and socialization. Give her time
to grow out of it," they said.
Finally, when Helen was just over 2 years old, the
Marvins received news that confirmed their suspicions that something was
different about their child. Physicians at Johns Hopkins pinpointed the
cause of Helen's developmental delays. Helen was diagnosed with autism.
Autism is a condition often hard to diagnose at an
early age, a condition not even mentioned in medical journals until the
1940's, a genetic, inherited condition that was once thought to only affect
1 in 10,000 children but has grown to be diagnosed in as many as 1 in
500 children. It is the third most diagnosed disability after cerebral
palsy and mental retardation.
Identifying autism is difficult because it manifests
itself in different ways. In Helen's case, the condition resulted in not
only a lack of speech development but appropriate social skills. Even
those with autism who have language skills are often incapable of negotiating
everyday conversations; there is an inability to
manipulate, to tell even the whitest of lies. Taken together, these conditions
make it difficult, even impossible for most people with autism to lead
a life of independence.
Fortunately, the Marvin's live in Denton, Maryland,
a short drive from Benedictine's main campus in Ridgely. They had heard
about Benedictine's mission of caring for children with developmental
disabilities. They had also heard of Benedictine's focus on developing
programs and staff skills to address the needs of growing population of
children with autism.
Mrs. Marvin added that she and her husband looked
closely at other options up and down the East Coast and San Francisco
- including public school inclusion programs. "We would have moved
to any school district in the country to find the best program for Helen.
But we chose Benedictine because it was what Helen needed; a program with
a long history of addressing autism as well as a number of other disabilities
including mental retardation. We felt that Benedictine would provide her
with a whole canvas of resources to help her reach her fullest potential,"
she added.
This Fall marks the beginning of Helen's fourth year
at Benedictine. As a parent and an extremely busy advocate for autism
research (see related article), Mrs. Marvin states, "There is something
special about Benedictine. The staff chooses to be there and it is that
choice that leads to their amazing ability to work with these children.
They have a true appreciation for Helen as an individual; it is clear
that they find joy in being with her. Their patience and professional
expertise is remarkable and has made a direct, positive impact on Helen."
During Helen's past few years at Benedictine, Mr.
and Mrs. Marvin have noticed positive changes in their daughter. According
to her teacher, Jennifer Conley, "When Helen first came to Benedictine
she was very hyper and she had a hard time staying focused." Ms.
Conley's Total Communications II Classroom has been specifically modified
to meet the needs of students with autism. Sign language and technological
devices that facilitate communication are used extensively in the class
and distractions are kept to a minimum. "Today, Helen is still full
of energy, but she's calmer and can stay focused. She really enjoys any
activities involving the alphabet and she loves arts and crafts,"
states Ms. Conley. "Helen has recently shown potential in academic
areas like writing and some reading activities," she added.
"Benedictine has made such a difference in all
of our lives" said Mrs. Marvin. She added, "Our family can now
do things together that would not have been possible just a few years
ago. We are so very grateful to Sister Jeannette and her wonderful staff."
Helen is fortunate. Her parents are actively involved
in her life. They live close enough to Benedictine so Helen can attend
Benedictine's day program which has proven to be of optimal benefit for
her. They bring her to school every day and pick her up at the end of
the day. They also have the financial resources necessary to pay the full
tuition for Helen which tops $40,000 each year.
While Mr. Kim Marvin, a Harvard M.B.A., directs an
international business concern that requires extensive travel, Mrs. Marvin
along with managing the household in Denton, MD, has become one of the
country's leading advocates for autism research. In the Spring of 2001,
Mrs. Marvin was elected President of the National Alliance for Autism
Research (NAAR). Using her professional background as an attorney with
degrees from Georgetown University Law Center and the Massachusetts Institute
of Technology, she directs the activities of NAAR which is the first organization
of its kind in the United States concerned with the limited amount of
biomedical research conducted into the causes, prevention, treatment and
cure of autism. To learn more about NAAR, visit their website at www.naar.org.
staff skills to address the needs of a growing population of children
with autism.
| NOTE: Not all children at Benedictine
have parents as supportive as Helen's. More than 50% of children
at Benedictine have been referred by social service agencies;
they have no real family support system. To many of these children,
Sister Jeannette and her staff will be the only support system
they will know for years to come. Benedictine relies on continued
support to provide the resources and staffing that makes Benedictine
feel more like "a home" for these very special children
and young adults. Among the assistive devices used are communication
books, colorful binders with a photograph and name of the child
on the cover. Inside the book are many small squares which attach
to the pages. Each square contains letters of the alphabet,
colors or pictures with their names printed under them. Since
Helen is non-verbal, this book is essential in helping her communicate. |
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